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CSA = childhood sexual abuse.
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(but nothing actually explicit)
- Run by @teyviary.bsky.social
CSA = childhood sexual abuse.
Content may trigger.
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· Nov 16
actually, it *is* "technically pedophilia."
technically, in a casual and colloquial conversation, the commonly understood informal catch-all term used for someone who rapes *any* minors is "pedophile."
technically, in a casual and colloquial conversation, the commonly understood informal catch-all term used for someone who rapes *any* minors is "pedophile."
"You Can Run, But We'll Find You" by Matchbook Romance
"The World Does Not Revolve Around You" by temposhark
"The World Does Not Revolve Around You" by temposhark
Deleted a post about “what’s your least favorite song” because the vibes are bad enough already.
Instead: what’s your favorite song that has a long title, say at least 6 words long?
Mine: “Elderly Woman Behind the Counter in a Small Town” (Pearl Jam)
Instead: what’s your favorite song that has a long title, say at least 6 words long?
Mine: “Elderly Woman Behind the Counter in a Small Town” (Pearl Jam)
February 4, 2026 at 5:48 AM
"You Can Run, But We'll Find You" by Matchbook Romance
"The World Does Not Revolve Around You" by temposhark
"The World Does Not Revolve Around You" by temposhark
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yes, "predators are drawn to environments that allow them access to minors" is not the same as "everyone interacting with minors is a predator"
Okay please shit on jkr
But don’t use the logic “it’s suspicious an adult wanted to make a magical world for children”
Bc that’s how you get “everyone who works on media for children should be jailed” ass logic
But don’t use the logic “it’s suspicious an adult wanted to make a magical world for children”
Bc that’s how you get “everyone who works on media for children should be jailed” ass logic
February 3, 2026 at 9:58 PM
yes, "predators are drawn to environments that allow them access to minors" is not the same as "everyone interacting with minors is a predator"
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Yeah, that’s the thing. I knew a lot of girls who were shy, quiet, and pretty but not conventionally beautiful, who were abused. Because abuse is often about access.
As a 'never beautiful girl' stage actress who never even made it to the wider public sphere, I have an inkling but could only imagine. But I feel like not being considered a stunner is just another window predators test. When everyone's looking elsewhere, that one person looking at me has more power
February 1, 2026 at 7:25 PM
Yeah, that’s the thing. I knew a lot of girls who were shy, quiet, and pretty but not conventionally beautiful, who were abused. Because abuse is often about access.
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Odd how so many people who argued trans people are corrupting children happen to be in the Epstein Files.
Huh.
Huh.
February 2, 2026 at 4:37 PM
Odd how so many people who argued trans people are corrupting children happen to be in the Epstein Files.
Huh.
Huh.
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Rape isn’t about sex. It’s about power. The power they get off on isn’t going to be found in a consensual relationship.
February 3, 2026 at 2:38 AM
Rape isn’t about sex. It’s about power. The power they get off on isn’t going to be found in a consensual relationship.
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Making it make sense: Epstein wasn't a global mastermind. He did not orchestrate a vast conspiracy that led us to today.
He was a very rich man with connections to other very rich men. The shared culture of these men is that they have a right to dominate and abuse others without consequence.
He was a very rich man with connections to other very rich men. The shared culture of these men is that they have a right to dominate and abuse others without consequence.
February 3, 2026 at 10:44 AM
Making it make sense: Epstein wasn't a global mastermind. He did not orchestrate a vast conspiracy that led us to today.
He was a very rich man with connections to other very rich men. The shared culture of these men is that they have a right to dominate and abuse others without consequence.
He was a very rich man with connections to other very rich men. The shared culture of these men is that they have a right to dominate and abuse others without consequence.
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Seriously because look at your personal contribution to rape culture, it doesn't get fixed until everyone in society gets that we all have a choice to uphold it or not.
If you're still following Neil Gaiman, you really shouldn't be posting about the Epstein Files as if you're a champion for survivors.
February 3, 2026 at 5:51 PM
Seriously because look at your personal contribution to rape culture, it doesn't get fixed until everyone in society gets that we all have a choice to uphold it or not.
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Bruh, wtf — maybe go to X?
A 16 year old is still developmentally and legally a child. Calling them “young women” softens what was done and makes exploitation sound consensual. Predators target teens precisely because they are easier to manipulate and abuse, not because they’re somehow adults.
A 16 year old is still developmentally and legally a child. Calling them “young women” softens what was done and makes exploitation sound consensual. Predators target teens precisely because they are easier to manipulate and abuse, not because they’re somehow adults.
February 3, 2026 at 9:25 PM
Bruh, wtf — maybe go to X?
A 16 year old is still developmentally and legally a child. Calling them “young women” softens what was done and makes exploitation sound consensual. Predators target teens precisely because they are easier to manipulate and abuse, not because they’re somehow adults.
A 16 year old is still developmentally and legally a child. Calling them “young women” softens what was done and makes exploitation sound consensual. Predators target teens precisely because they are easier to manipulate and abuse, not because they’re somehow adults.
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These taboos exist because identifying those who break them and forcibly removing them from your community is crucial to our survival as a species.
February 1, 2026 at 5:25 PM
These taboos exist because identifying those who break them and forcibly removing them from your community is crucial to our survival as a species.
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There are lots of cases of people, mainly men, who aren’t particularly intelligent or capable but benefit from the existence of rape and abuse culture simply because they recognize you can
February 1, 2026 at 3:50 PM
There are lots of cases of people, mainly men, who aren’t particularly intelligent or capable but benefit from the existence of rape and abuse culture simply because they recognize you can
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yeah, so Fallout nailed it
February 1, 2026 at 3:02 AM
yeah, so Fallout nailed it
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one thing you never want to have to realize is that you were really underestimating the number of pedophiles
January 31, 2026 at 5:35 PM
one thing you never want to have to realize is that you were really underestimating the number of pedophiles
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When I was working with DV victims in crisis situations where I had to get them and their kids to a safe place or else I had to take their kids to foster care, the most effective question I asked was, "Would he keep doing that if the cops were watching?"
They are never out of control
They are never out of control
All of this.
Disrupt the “violence comes from emotions running too high” narrative whenever you can.
Patriarchal violence doesn’t come from someone losing control. It comes from someone using a very specific set of tactics to seek more control than they already have.
Disrupt the “violence comes from emotions running too high” narrative whenever you can.
Patriarchal violence doesn’t come from someone losing control. It comes from someone using a very specific set of tactics to seek more control than they already have.
This is it right here. Law enforcement personnel who move 0 to 60 with their aggression when "executing detention orders" are doing so from learned behavior - it is not instinctual to smash a car window, cut someone's seat belt, drag them out of their car and throw them to the ground. It's taught.
January 24, 2026 at 4:50 AM
When I was working with DV victims in crisis situations where I had to get them and their kids to a safe place or else I had to take their kids to foster care, the most effective question I asked was, "Would he keep doing that if the cops were watching?"
They are never out of control
They are never out of control
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the correct response to "turns out they were right about that thing all along" isn't "whew! good thing I understand now."
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
January 19, 2026 at 10:48 PM
the correct response to "turns out they were right about that thing all along" isn't "whew! good thing I understand now."
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
the correct response is is "wait, what else were they right about?"
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Why don’t they just name names?
Why didn’t she go to the police?
Where were her parents?
Why was she alone with him?
This is what sexual assault survivors have to go through.
No one asks why the man chose to rape or why rapists aren’t punished.
The victims are blamed.
Why didn’t she go to the police?
Where were her parents?
Why was she alone with him?
This is what sexual assault survivors have to go through.
No one asks why the man chose to rape or why rapists aren’t punished.
The victims are blamed.
December 24, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Why don’t they just name names?
Why didn’t she go to the police?
Where were her parents?
Why was she alone with him?
This is what sexual assault survivors have to go through.
No one asks why the man chose to rape or why rapists aren’t punished.
The victims are blamed.
Why didn’t she go to the police?
Where were her parents?
Why was she alone with him?
This is what sexual assault survivors have to go through.
No one asks why the man chose to rape or why rapists aren’t punished.
The victims are blamed.
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The right wing numpties are crying "this is Censorship!" over Grok.
Our reply should be: "Yes. Exactly. It's Censorship. Of Child Sexual Material. Censorship of CSM is a very good thing."
The media needs to take these free speech absolutists to task on the material limits of their beliefs.
Our reply should be: "Yes. Exactly. It's Censorship. Of Child Sexual Material. Censorship of CSM is a very good thing."
The media needs to take these free speech absolutists to task on the material limits of their beliefs.
January 18, 2026 at 7:06 PM
The right wing numpties are crying "this is Censorship!" over Grok.
Our reply should be: "Yes. Exactly. It's Censorship. Of Child Sexual Material. Censorship of CSM is a very good thing."
The media needs to take these free speech absolutists to task on the material limits of their beliefs.
Our reply should be: "Yes. Exactly. It's Censorship. Of Child Sexual Material. Censorship of CSM is a very good thing."
The media needs to take these free speech absolutists to task on the material limits of their beliefs.
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It's uncomfortable to unpack your privilege, but it's more uncomfortable to be oppressed. Most white people can't manage the relatively minor discomfort of coming to terms with whiteness in order to ease the burden on the oppressed. It's pretty pathetic.
December 24, 2025 at 2:18 PM
It's uncomfortable to unpack your privilege, but it's more uncomfortable to be oppressed. Most white people can't manage the relatively minor discomfort of coming to terms with whiteness in order to ease the burden on the oppressed. It's pretty pathetic.
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Someone somewhere knows what’s in the Epstein files. Time to be a hero and leak them.
January 18, 2026 at 9:31 PM
Someone somewhere knows what’s in the Epstein files. Time to be a hero and leak them.
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It’s never about the little things in isolation, that could have just been done differently to prevent a tantrum. It’s about the abuser’s reaction to the little things, making any casual, mundane, ordinary thing a potential unpredictable risk, and a pattern of that over time.
January 11, 2026 at 11:51 PM
It’s never about the little things in isolation, that could have just been done differently to prevent a tantrum. It’s about the abuser’s reaction to the little things, making any casual, mundane, ordinary thing a potential unpredictable risk, and a pattern of that over time.
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i cannot stand when people say i was sexually assaulted, i've been so clear that was rape. the word exists for a reason please use it
January 15, 2026 at 7:19 PM
i cannot stand when people say i was sexually assaulted, i've been so clear that was rape. the word exists for a reason please use it
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A reminder for my fellow asexual and aromantic peeps.
You don't owe anyone sex, or sexelessness, or an explanation. You just have to be. Don't let anyone take that from you.
You don't owe anyone sex, or sexelessness, or an explanation. You just have to be. Don't let anyone take that from you.
January 18, 2026 at 5:39 AM
A reminder for my fellow asexual and aromantic peeps.
You don't owe anyone sex, or sexelessness, or an explanation. You just have to be. Don't let anyone take that from you.
You don't owe anyone sex, or sexelessness, or an explanation. You just have to be. Don't let anyone take that from you.
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i don't care if you're trans you still have to be a decent person
January 19, 2026 at 12:21 AM
i don't care if you're trans you still have to be a decent person
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A lot of them also seem to feel that they are owed forgiveness and acceptance because of that personal belief that they've repented.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
November 13, 2025 at 2:08 AM
A lot of them also seem to feel that they are owed forgiveness and acceptance because of that personal belief that they've repented.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
That level of entitlement is a red flag that indicates they haven't really changed that much at all, because they can't even acknowlege the harm that they've done.
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Distraction is absolutely a legit coping tool in realistic trauma recovery. Don't think you have to meet everything head on, full speed, at all times-- it's just real important we don't substitute constant, desperate distraction for acknowledging & processing feelings & memories.
November 15, 2025 at 6:23 PM
Distraction is absolutely a legit coping tool in realistic trauma recovery. Don't think you have to meet everything head on, full speed, at all times-- it's just real important we don't substitute constant, desperate distraction for acknowledging & processing feelings & memories.