Jill Hayward
@frdragonspouse.bsky.social
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Still all the things I was over at the Other Place. And still angry. Preoccupations: politics, education, disability and inclusive feminism. Cishet trans ally. Widow. Socialist. She/her.
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frdragonspouse.bsky.social
It's not a good time to be the socialist parent of a disabled trans person,tbh.

The UK is a bit shit right now...
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thepigtailedgirl.at.app.wafrn.net
Transphobia leads to a culture of intimidating gnc cis women so even by his own standards he's in the wrong here
sophiemolly.co.uk
No Wes, torturing children is disgraceful!

Stop doing it Wes!!

Trans Kids Deserve Better!!
This kind of violent direct action is disgraceful. It is designed to intimidate people - in this case women - into silence and it must not be allowed to happen with impunity.
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esqueer.net
This is now the blueprint for men to control trans women. Have sex with them and then threaten to go to police unless they do what he wants. It's ripe for abuse from men who will weaponize their shame. It also builds their narrative of trans women being sexual predators even when the victim.
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esqueer.net
A man gets a blowjob from a trans woman and his friends make fun of him so he goes to the police to claim she lied about being a woman. She was convicted of sexual assault and sentenced to nearly 2 years in prison because of a man's shame.

www.bbc.com/news/article...
Thornaby transgender woman jailed for deception sex assault
Ciara Watkin's victim says he would not have agreed to sex had he known she was biologically male.
www.bbc.com
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ohsarahsavage.bsky.social
Wes is happy to abuse women when it suits him
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ottoenglish.bsky.social
Bad people can thrive in their lifetimes, but history will (almost) always catch up with them eventually.

Trump can preen and pout and posture all he likes, but his only reward will be eventual ignimony.

In the meantime, every well-deserved slap in his face should be treasured.

#NobelPeacePrize
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laurajedeed.bsky.social
This video is everywhere because it's a hilarious visual refutation of Portland being on fire. You can't get a mass movement going without convincing the masses

so yes, this does do something actually
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This literally does nothing. You are not beating fascism by dressing up in inflatable suits and dancing

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Portland is leading the way. This is how you (non violently) beat Fascism. Humor and ridicule are key.

Stillframe from a video of Portland protesters dancing in inflatable suits 

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jessothomson.co.uk
My takeaway is that we might reasonably adopt an approach where any sort of deliberate deception vitiates consent - eg a man who tells you he is 35 and single but he is actually 55 married. But we cannot have a rule that is in practice for trans people alone. Especially when disclosure is dangerous.
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izzykamikaze.bsky.social
Stella O'Malley (7 years experience of well-funded anti-trans rhetoric) & Genspect (4 years of well-funded anti-trans advocacy) have taken legal action against 70-year-old Leonie O'Dowd (40+ years experience of counselling & supporting trans people) to shut her up. www.the-case.eu/latest/slapp...
It’s a SLAPP: Stella O’Malley Targets Psychotherapist and Rights Advocate Leonie O’Dowd – CASE
www.the-case.eu
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reverendjesus.com
Blessed are the frogs, for they keep making authoritarians look incredibly stupid
Three persons in inflatable frog costumes. One of them is holding a nicely painted sign with two little cartoon frogs holding hands, below the text "FROGS TOGETHER STRONG"
frdragonspouse.bsky.social
I'm a woman, and i'm not in the least intimidated by this. I think the Right Horrible Secretary of State is confusing a bunch of transphobes with the majority of inclusive feminist women.
helenm40.bsky.social
Oh do fuck off Wes Streeting.

It's not designed to intimidate women, it's designed to protest transphobia.

If I protest against racist scum, that's not me 'intimidating men', it's disagreeing with racism.

I am sick to fucking death him pretending that transphobe and woman are synonyms.
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helenm40.bsky.social
Oh do fuck off Wes Streeting.

It's not designed to intimidate women, it's designed to protest transphobia.

If I protest against racist scum, that's not me 'intimidating men', it's disagreeing with racism.

I am sick to fucking death him pretending that transphobe and woman are synonyms.
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natacha.bsky.social
This is an amazing defence of trans people against one of the country’s worst transphobic bigots by @zackpolanski.bsky.social
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hleehurley.com
If she'd been married and lied about being single or if she'd been a convicted abuser and lied about that she would not be going to jail.

People lie all the time before sex, during sex and after sex.

If you're trans, that's a crime.
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alexadwilson.bsky.social
Today is International #FragileX Awareness Day. Here's a thread a wrote a while ago about how it affects our family.
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azathotenergy.bsky.social
Trans youth are literally fucking awesome. Funny, thoughtful, smart, brilliant. We are truly blessed.
frdragonspouse.bsky.social
'Lateral with Tom Scott' is quite fun. Humorous science/tech and accessible even if you're not an expert.
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mimmymum.bsky.social
The Suffragettes famously went around smashing windows as an act of protest.

That the ‘gender critical’ transphobes at FiLiA who call themselves “feminists” are criticising marginalised trans people for using the very same techniques their ‘sheroes’ did, is hypocrisy in the extreme! 😣
Shattering Suffrage
The WSPU's 1912 Window-Smashing
Campaign
By Jack Stephenson
March of 1912 saw a fierce struggle for Women's Suffrage engulf the streets of London, leaving a trail of shattered glass and a resounding call for change. The Ist of March saw the start of a Window Smashing Campaign that would see over 150 members of the Women's Social and Political Union smash numerous windows in the Capital. Their aim? To disrupt the societal norms and highlight the urgency of Women's Suffrage.
While the Suffragettes had previously used window smashing as a form of disorderly protest, the Window Smashing Campaign of 1912 saw disruptive action being carried out on a scale not previously undertaken by the WSPU. The police were made aware of the planned disturbance and officers were ready to make a number of arrests, with officers from the special branch being stationed outside of the WSPU meeting place of the Gardenia Restaurant. (1] Book cover…

SECRET MISSIONS OF THE SUFFRAGETTES
GLASS BREAKERS AND SAFE HOUSES
JENNIFER GODFREY Old newspaper article…

ILLUSTRATED LONDON NEWS, MARCH 9, 1912
GLASS - SMASHING FOR VOTES! SUFFRAGETTES AS WINDOW - BREAKERS.
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ohsarahsavage.bsky.social
I was personally promised the council would fly the trans flag months ago. Yesterday I was told they forgot to do it and there's nothing anyone can do to rectify their mistake.
transpridebrighton.bsky.social
5/7 We’re also disappointed that Brighton & Hove City Council promised to fly the trans flag over both town halls this weekend in solidarity, then backed out, citing Black History Month. As if intersectionality doesn’t exist. Once again, our community is pushed aside by institutions.
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pollik.bsky.social
R4 - Today

Bridget Philipson said "It's critical that Jewish students are able to conduct their studies and express their Jewish identities"

(Apparently, Jewish identities are more valid than trans identities.)

www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/...

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