Calder 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
@ktg48.bsky.social
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Gay trans guy living in SF. Activist, papa, husband, boy, Taurus, Swiftie, gym rat, mostly vegetarian. Kept alive by community, beach objects, theatre & books.
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ktg48.bsky.social
Said as a very binary trans guy - same. I’d never want to be a cis guy. The combination of lived experiences I’ve had, and the unique lens that I now get to see everything through - I’d never trade it.

But I do wish society would stop being fucking garbage to us.
ktg48.bsky.social
Totally agree w your assessment about ranking and loving a handful of songs. Me too. But Wi$h Li$t is super on my list 😅
ktg48.bsky.social
… and clearly having good sex lol. I think she’s due to come into her own in that regard; she’s always been so reticent to be reduced to a sex symbol and now she’s going there on her own terms.
ktg48.bsky.social
… simple (like a driveway w a basketball hoop). I don’t think that’ll lead her to become a trad wife lol. To me, her albums have mirrored her life and right now she’s clearly happy af…
ktg48.bsky.social
I kinda think the point of her feminism and her having songs like The Man means that she gets to do whatever the heck she wants. She isn’t saying the $ stuff in Wi$h Li$t is for her - she’s saying some other people aspire to that stuff, thinking it can buy happiness, but she wants something…
ktg48.bsky.social
… precisely because they’re associated with feminized forms of emotion and community.

YES. Well said.
ktg48.bsky.social
This quote is fire:

Dismissing this discourse around Taylor Swift as frivolous pop culture drama would be a mistake – it would repeat the same old pattern of treating women’s and queer people’s cultural spaces as trivial and unworthy of serious analysis…
ktg48.bsky.social
“Dismissing this discourse around Swift as frivolous pop culture drama would be a mistake; it would repeat the same old pattern of treating women/queer people’s cultural spaces as trivial & unworthy of serious analysis precisely because they’re associated with feminized forms of emotion & community”
When Intimate Publics Shift: Understanding the Discourse around Taylor Swift’s New Album
As those who know me well (or, even those who have been around me for any length of time) know, I’m a Swiftie. And I was excited for The Life of a Showgirl like everyone else. I stayed up to …
thereluctantamericanist.com
ktg48.bsky.social
What the actual fuck, I am laughing so hard
ktg48.bsky.social
“This is representative of how the effects of the patriarchy play out on straight people” ? I try to keep it real (and then buy queer graphic novels to balance it out).
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jamellebouie.net
yeah, trump has made very clear that he doesn’t think black people deserve to be in jobs of influence! www.nytimes.com/2025/10/08/u...
Trump Fires Black Officials From an Overwhelmingly White Administration
www.nytimes.com
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assignedmedia.org
A fringe group wants the field of psychiatry to regress back to the days when stereotypes and prejudices resulted in mental illness diagnoses for marginalized populations.

In a new reported piece, @evanurquhart.bsky.social examines Genspect's call for the re-psychopathologization of trans identity.
Hate Group Calls for Re-Labeling Transness as Mental Illness — Assigned
A fringe group with no expertise pushes the field of psychiatry to regress to a pre-scientific, prejudice-soaked view of trans people. It coincides with the far-right political agenda.
www.assignedmedia.org
ktg48.bsky.social
People calling Taylor anti-feminist because she sings that she wants to have kids with her hot fiancé, or she chooses to get filler - like, FUCK, the whole point of feminism is that women can do WHATEVER THE FUCK THEY WANT TO. That’s precisely what “fuck the patriarchy” means.
ktg48.bsky.social
100%! I read the book decades ago and just saw it in the theatre recently. Landed a little differently now.
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bowlerhatscience.org
Yep. What they *always* mean is "I don't think your life is important enough to care about, and I don't like being confronted with that fact, so I'm gonna make it sound like *your* problem"
jongraywb.bsky.social
At this point im starting to wonder if hearing the words “purity test” are a dogwhistle because the most shit opinions in the universe will almost always immediately follow it
ktg48.bsky.social
Dude, you have rainbow flags next to your name. You should at a minimum be aware of Newsom’s anti-trans stance. It’s a pretty low-hanging fruit (fact!).
ktg48.bsky.social
Snorting. This comment wins the internet today, congrats 🤣
ktg48.bsky.social
He has an amazing young woman writing his tweets, yes. Do you know anything about his policy? It’s not at all a spin if the answer is yes.
ktg48.bsky.social
- AOC
- Sanders
- Beshear
- Walz
- Warren
- Mamdani
- Tlaib
- Omar
- Green
- Pritzker
- Murphy
- Crockett

Start looking at them before you come with this Newsom or bust bullshit
ktg48.bsky.social
He has a few more days to sign them, let them become law without an sig, or veto them. I’m not saying I’m hopeful, but this isn’t over yet. The headline is a bit misleading. I may have yelled WTF when I saw it before reading. That’s one media outlet that will still make a correction, at least.