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Grumpy J is just existing, and it kinda feels good
@grumpyj.bsky.social
Late 30s neurodivergent Canadian taking it one day at a time. LBGTQ+, polyam, curler, board gamer. He/him
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Been meaning to do one of these for a while. Hello Bluesky, Grumpy J reporting. I got the nickname from coworkers who didn't know I had depression. Bigtime lefty, polyam, autistic. Reside in grape country, western Canada. I like lots of things, but my main love is board games!
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January 9, 2026 at 1:49 AM
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I just sniped a kid in Overwatch and he wrote "ohhh Kirked me" and I just found out they're using that as shorthand for a good snipe HOLY SHIT LOL
December 31, 2025 at 9:42 PM
I will never be able to put into words what Calvin and Hobbes means to me
The final Calvin and Hobbes, which appeared in papers 30 years ago today.
December 31, 2025 at 6:25 PM
I'm a disgraced, alcoholic, closeted bisexual half-vampire master swordsman (Empire of the Dawn, Jay Kristoff)
I’m a historian who unbeknownst to me has been sent back in time so much that my brain is basically dissolving. Alternatively, I am the magnificent woman knight he’s obsessed with, in kind of a genderqueer way (The Everlasting, Alix Harrow)
December 30, 2025 at 3:37 AM
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The full spiked 60 Minutes CECOT package, clean & subtitled. 5/5
December 23, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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The full spiked 60 Minutes CECOT package, clean & subtitled. 4/5
December 23, 2025 at 1:29 AM
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The full spiked 60 Minutes CECOT package, clean & subtitled. 3/5
December 23, 2025 at 1:29 AM
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The full spiked 60 Minutes CECOT package, clean & subtitled. 1/5
December 23, 2025 at 1:28 AM
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Hockey Players Blast ‘Heated Rivalry’ For Unrealistic Depiction Of Anal Sex https://theonion.com/hockey-players-blast-heated-rivalry-for-unrealistic-depiction-of-anal-sex/
December 19, 2025 at 7:00 PM
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I love my two blackout drunk Minnesota sons
December 18, 2025 at 2:17 PM
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December 17, 2025 at 2:05 AM
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I don’t use social media to argue about politics with strangers.

I use social media to talk to people about fish.

When I talk about fish on Bluesky, people ask me questions about fish.

When I talk about fish on Twitter, people threaten to murder my family because we’re Jewish.
"Bluesky is an echo chamber."
"Bluesky doesn't have enough reach"
"Liberals must return to X to challenge the far right"

I'm not a tech bro or a journalist. Your priorities are not my priorities. Stop telling me I need to do anything other than chat about comics & telly with people who seem nice.
December 15, 2025 at 11:44 AM
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One of my all-time favorite clips of Rob Reiner, from his Friars Club Roast in 2000, as he reads aloud Roger Ebert's infamous scathing review of his movie North. The man had an amazing sense of humor about himself. RIP.
December 15, 2025 at 3:53 AM
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He's also responsible for raising all the money that paid for bringing Hollingsworth v. Perry & even more importantly Bostic v. Schaefer, which created the circuit split that forced SCOTUS to take on Obergefell v. Hodges. The role he played in American marriage equality cannot be overstated.
The cultural impact of Rob Reiner cannot be understated. Legend isn't big enough a word. It goes to 11. You can't handle the truth. As you wish. I'll have what she's having. I'm your number one fan. You guys wanna see a dead body? The very idea of a bucket list. The West Wing.

All from his movies.
December 15, 2025 at 3:59 AM
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UPDATE

The Reiner family has released a statement:

“It is with profound sorrow that we announce the tragic passing of Michele and Rob Reiner. We are heartbroken by this sudden loss, and we ask for privacy during this unbelievably difficult time.”
December 15, 2025 at 4:46 AM
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This entire weekend
December 15, 2025 at 3:58 AM
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The cultural impact of Rob Reiner cannot be understated. Legend isn't big enough a word. It goes to 11. You can't handle the truth. As you wish. I'll have what she's having. I'm your number one fan. You guys wanna see a dead body? The very idea of a bucket list. The West Wing.

All from his movies.
December 15, 2025 at 3:51 AM
No. NO. FUCKING NO!!
December 15, 2025 at 4:50 AM
I named my fists Rocky and Balboa because they're always beating meat
I named my fists Moby and Dick because I am about to whale on you.
I named my fists Chekhov and Gun because you know they're coming but you don't know when
December 1, 2025 at 4:56 PM
As of 2025:

Wingspan
Alhambra
Hadrian's Wall
Cascadia
Evergreen
Stock Ticker
Power Grid
Sagrada
Cosmoctopus
Wormholes
board game enthusiasts of bluesky, what are your top 10 board games of all time
November 15, 2025 at 10:04 PM
Never loan someone money unless you can afford to never see it again
Name something your dad taught you
November 14, 2025 at 12:48 PM
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Major tabletop convention energy, proudly Canadian. 🍁

We're building TCTC into the kind of convention you might see in other countries - but with a decidedly home-grown, grassroots flair.

Join us March 13-15, 2026 in downtown Vancouver, and help make it happen!
Tickets
TCTC 2026 Tickets Early bird pricing is available for a limited time! Scroll down for details about each ticket type. March 13-15, 2026 View the Terminal City Tabletop Convention 2026 schedule &…
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November 13, 2025 at 4:43 AM
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every company in 2025
November 12, 2025 at 5:59 PM
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this is objectively hilarious
November 5, 2025 at 2:05 AM
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If you just banked that coffee money every week and denied yourself every other instance of life’s gastronomic pleasures, however small and ordinary, you could save enough to make the down payment on that starter house in [checks notes] five hundred and seventy three years
“At the same time, more than half of Gen Z members say they are struggling to make ends meet, yet a majority buy themselves a small treat, such as a pastry, coffee, or sweet, at least once a week. That can lead to overspending…”

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October 31, 2025 at 6:25 PM