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I can't see "her"
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The mirror shows a guy as usual. The mind nudges elsewhere. If seeing is believing, this is a recipe for self doubt. Might as well vent.
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My new favorite kind of meme is "here are detailed instructions on how to turn off AI". 🔨
November 19, 2025 at 3:00 PM
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Users of r/tallgirls share their experiences of measures intended to target trans people:

www.reddit.com/r/TallGirls/...
From the TallGirls community on Reddit
Explore this post and more from the TallGirls community
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November 20, 2025 at 8:30 AM
No idea if this Person That Could Have Been is a staple of Roger Taylor's psyche, but Roger certainly succeeded in giving her cultural immortality while carrying on with his default life unaffected...
Like that smile. 🥺
November 20, 2025 at 3:08 PM
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This isn’t about the meme or anything but Roger Taylor:

a) suggested the concept for the music video;
b) is the one on the left.

Babe. There is still time.
Adverts should be representative of traditional British families
October 27, 2025 at 8:56 PM
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my secret transgender project… @annehealthcare.bsky.social
November 20, 2025 at 12:21 AM
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Hey folks, I often do posts calling for indie developers to link me their games so I can signal boost them. Today I want to do something similar for all trans creatives.

If you are a trans game dev, artist, writer, streamer or YouTuber, reply here with a link to your work. Only one rule: no GenAI.💜
November 20, 2025 at 12:28 PM
So my GPS office just called to say they're stopping the Finasteride prescriptions, despite years of no ill effects...
I'll need to have a chat with the doc.
I don't intend to stop damage control in one form of another.
Maybe not the thing to push me toward some form of DIY, but the thought lingered
September 17, 2025 at 2:29 PM
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hey guys check this out

A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO FEMINIZING HRT (15.9k words)

pghrt.diy
A Practical Guide To Feminizing HRT
The futile attempt at answering every possible question for someone looking to trans their sex.
pghrt.diy
August 20, 2025 at 10:28 PM
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Happy birthday @pseudonymjones.bsky.social I think of this comic at least once a week
August 7, 2025 at 3:47 PM
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Someone sent me this with only the first 4 panels.
So I had to fix it, by adding the 5th.
August 7, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Took the leap & have been reading RCBG.
The experience of reading it reminds me of a Genshiken reader's lamentation that he caught a reference from Sue that Madarame didn't, implying terminal otaku brain.
It's too intelligible for comfort despite technically being detached from character experiences
August 5, 2025 at 12:23 PM
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We're at the 'we're very sorry we hired a trans person' stage in the UK's systematic erasure of trans people.
Horrible story. Apologising because a trans employee had the temerity to interact with a customer. What are we becoming?

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/08...
August 5, 2025 at 7:02 AM
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August 2, 2025 at 2:36 AM
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August 3, 2025 at 12:33 AM
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a lot of trans women are not actually socialized male but socialized doormat and some of them when accused of male privilege will instantly go into their trained cPTSD response of fawning and being apologetic for existing and taking up a modicum of space.
this is, of course, all done for the purpose of beating trans women into submission and making us apologize for even existing.

To reiterate what I said about this in 2021, I will never apologize for who I am, and I shouldn't be fucking expected to.
July 19, 2025 at 11:57 AM
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LinkedIn has removed hate speech protections for transgender people and people of color.

www.advocate.com/news/linkedi...
LinkedIn exposes transgender users to targeted harassment after company quietly changes hate speech policy
The changes involve edits to LinkedIn’s Professional Community Policies, specifically the “Hateful and Derogatory Content” and “Harassment and Abusive Content” sections.
www.advocate.com
July 30, 2025 at 9:12 PM
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If you buy a home, learn from my mistakes and keep a list of:

* the manufacturer and model of all of your faucets / fixtures
* every paint color + manufacturer + glossiness of every paint you do
August 3, 2025 at 8:42 PM
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NEWS: Yuna Hirasawa's autobiographical manga 'MY JOURNEY TO HER' about her experience transitioning as a transgender woman has won a prestigious Eisner Award for Best Digital Comic

🎊CONGRATULATIONS TO YUNA HIRASAWA!!🎉

yurimother.com/post/7903575...
July 28, 2025 at 11:29 PM
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i hate the game politicians play where they back israel 100% until it starts killing too many people too fast, then they start calling for peace until the killing slows to levels acceptable for them. they're not opposing genocide, they're negotiating how quickly it should proceed
July 25, 2025 at 1:22 PM
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I can’t get over my cousin’s graduation cake.
May 25, 2025 at 2:37 PM
As one trans man sung decades before transitioning, "I'm willing to go on, but not alone, not now":

youtu.be/ckkezZPUMsE
August 3, 2025 at 8:58 PM
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If “changing your sex” were impossible, they wouldn’t need to ban it.
July 31, 2025 at 2:21 PM
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Estrogen rules, dude.
August 3, 2025 at 3:31 PM