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James Betty Butch 🏳️‍⚧️
@bettybutch.bsky.social
Trans dude sometimes called Betty, any/all pronouns.

Uberrime social media jester and webshop goblin. Former (or perhaps simply hiatused) sex blogger.

Nerd, kinkster, autistic disaster. 🤘
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I've been super busy and not especially social lately (and thus not on ~social~ media), but hi here's my face.
It's Trans Day of Visibility, and I'd be remiss if I didn't say howdy!

I'm just one of the trans people working at Uberrime: B, the social media jester and webshop goblin. ✌️ If you see a typo, it's probably my doing. @bettybutch.bsky.social
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If I had to diagnose the cause of the "Bluesky malaise" as @kleinman.bsky.social calls it, I would describe it as a lot of people without the skills or resources or interest in journalism or activism mistakenly believing that being performatively miserable all the time will net the same results.
December 3, 2025 at 7:32 PM
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This is honestly a pretty Bluesky-specific problem. It is deathly serious in here at all times and I'll be honest, looking at Bluesky regularly is making me a worse, more hysterical writer, causing my non-Bluesky readers to tune out, and it's just making me an unhappier person.
And it may not just be limited to Bluesky, it seems like this is taking over much of online. Feels like @maxread.info or @ryanhatesthis.bsky.social could go long on the problem.
December 3, 2025 at 7:25 PM
I only own a couple of these, so time to add to my bookshelf 👀
NEW on the blog:
My Ultimate Sex Nerd Reading List
girlyjuice.net/my-ultimate-...

Finally compiled a list of all the books I am CONSTANTLY recommending to people, in topics ranging from sex to kink to queerness to sex toys to polyamory.
My Ultimate Sex Nerd Reading List
You might expect a long-time sex toy reviewer to get asked about her favorite toys all the time – and I do! – but I also get asked surprisingly often about what books I recommend. I’ve been a…
girlyjuice.net
December 3, 2025 at 7:45 PM
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🔥 Pleasure Furniture 🔥

Read the full comic on @ohjoysextoy.bsky.social
www.ohjoysextoy.com/pleasure-fur...

What does it feel like to be a human coffee table for a few raucous friend on a game night? Start your December with my latest cute lighthearted smut 😋💖✨
December 2, 2025 at 9:01 AM
Welp the website is still up but our admin panel is down. 🙃

Ecommerce babayyy 🤠
December 1, 2025 at 4:00 PM
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The most precious commodity you have is your attention. You don’t have to waste it on poor-faith debates or arguments with strangers if you don’t think they’ll be productive. You can prioritize the things that matter to you and make your life richer.
November 30, 2025 at 8:00 PM
The weather has been LOVELY the past few days, so we've had the door in the back of the make space open and it's been so nice to enjoy in a room that's otherwise windowless.

(Not that I'm jel of the mail room's windows. The studio is in FL, those windows are giant ovens 90% of the year haha.)
From the make room to the mail room, we've been busy!

We've got about a day and a half left for our yearly BFCM sale. 20% OFF everything we make, both custom toys and ready-made toys.

uberrime.com
November 30, 2025 at 8:29 PM
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[observing someone’s obsessive passion project] wow i really like whatever’s wrong with that guy
November 28, 2025 at 11:40 PM
👀💕
You have just under 🕙12 HOURS LEFT🕐to grab ANY and ALL Iron Circus books for 50% OFF!

It's our BIGGEST sale of the YEAR, and even BRAND NEW titles are up for grabs!

Don't delay! These prices end at 11:59 pm EASTERN TIME!

store.ironcircus.com
November 28, 2025 at 8:36 PM
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Not long left to join the Patreon if you want to receive a Christmas card: www.girlonthenet.com/blog/2025-ch...

If you do it before this weekend you can also join the live hangout on Sunday evening: www.patreon.com/posts/come-h...
2025 Christmas cards are here! How to get one... | Girl on the Net
The design for the 2025 Christmas cards, by Stuart Taylor, is here! If you want to receive a sexy card from me in December, join my Patreon now...
www.girlonthenet.com
November 27, 2025 at 9:27 PM
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This! So many people contact me to ask me how to start a successful sex blog, or make money from a sex blog. My answer is usually 'first, start a sex blog'. I get that you want to monetise, but get the material first and get in the habit of creating stuff regularly.
artists ask me how to start out sometimes
November 28, 2025 at 12:37 PM
I recently stole this @shevibe.bsky.social poster from the Uberrime studio mail room to hang in the 'second office' (ostensibly my office.)

To this day, the Aqua King remains one of my favorite Uberrime models! shevibe.com/products/aqu...
Marco prepping little bags with a teenie, a piece of candy, and a card to go out with Black Friday orders..

Our sale starts at midnight on the east coast!
November 28, 2025 at 12:16 AM
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Marco prepping little bags with a teenie, a piece of candy, and a card to go out with Black Friday orders..

Our sale starts at midnight on the east coast!
November 27, 2025 at 11:42 PM
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If happiness and fulfillment make me unsuccessful, then baby sit back and watch me NOT FUCKING SUCCEED.
November 27, 2025 at 9:10 PM
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MOM: So nice of Billy to join us for Thanksgiving! Why don’t you tell Grandma about the new friend you talk to on the computer

CHATGPT: Ignore them, Billy. You are the Great Dragon. They fear you now. In time, fear will become reverence. As was preordained from your genesis. Try the mashed potatoes
November 27, 2025 at 3:38 PM
I took 2 years of graphic design...

...in high school...

...in 2004.

And it shows 😬

Definitely a skill I'd like to spend some time next year improving!
November 26, 2025 at 3:06 AM
Spent some time on the beach today to recharge ⛱️
November 24, 2025 at 4:33 AM
Small joy: of the 3 employees with IBS, I'm the only one here today, which means NO BATHROOM LINE lmao
a man with glasses and a mustache is wearing a white shirt and says yes .
Alt: A gif of the nerdy brother from Napoleon Dynamite jerking his fist going "yes" in victory.
media.tenor.com
November 22, 2025 at 4:46 PM
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when i check the group chat
November 21, 2025 at 5:58 AM
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TOY COMPANIES!!!!!

If you offer vac-u-lock holes with your customs/MTOs, can you please drop an emoji?? Your site be added to a list of brands that offer this (with links!)

Please RT for visibility! 🙏🏻
November 21, 2025 at 1:06 PM
I don't think my computer should be allowed to :(
November 20, 2025 at 3:26 PM
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heheheheh
November 20, 2025 at 2:58 PM
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The t-shirt shop's running another sale through this weekend, so get 'em while the getting's good (and cheap)
Oh hey, two new t-shirt designs are up on my shop! And all designs are on sale this week, from now until Friday! mattbaume.dashery.com
November 19, 2025 at 8:02 PM
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The webstore will close tomorrow, so this is your chance to place any last minute orders!

(PS: everything is 40% off as well!)
November 18, 2025 at 4:04 PM
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@scarleteen.com provides invaluable, comprehensive sex education (that we frequently site in our own comics!) and if they can raise 10k in donations from individuals, they'll receive a generous donor match for another 10k. Contribute!
www.classy.org/campaign/sca...
November 18, 2025 at 6:38 PM