DILF: DID I LEAVE FEMINISM is out now
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"DILF: Did I Leave Feminism" is out today. Get it here: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/801936/dilf-by-jude-doyle/
Issue 4 of "Be Not Afraid" with Lisandro Estherren out now, including -- finally! -- on Comixology.
Issue 4 of "Be Not Afraid" with Lisandro Estherren out now, including -- finally! -- on Comixology.
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It's officially the pub day for "DILF: DID I LEAVE FEMINISM!" I can't show you a photo of my book on my desk because I DON'T HAVE ONE! You can get one, though, from your LOCAL BOOKSHOP! Here is A USEFUL LINK! bookshop.org/p/books/dilf...
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So turns out in the UK, it’s only a crime to sexually harass a child over the course of several weeks if she’s NOT transgender. Live and learn.
Father Ted co-creator Graham Linehan has been cleared of harassing a transgender activist, but was found guilty of criminal damage to her mobile phone.
Father Ted’s Graham Linehan cleared of transphobic harassment
www.independent.co.uk
November 25, 2025 at 3:22 PM
So turns out in the UK, it’s only a crime to sexually harass a child over the course of several weeks if she’s NOT transgender. Live and learn.
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November 25, 2025 at 4:53 PM
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The most obnoxious way demands for pitches have changed, since I came out, is that as a trans person I'm expected to show you photos of my face and tell you my life story and how I *feel.* Even being perceived as a cis woman, I was allowed to tell you what I *think,* and you didn't need to see me.
November 25, 2025 at 3:38 PM
The most obnoxious way demands for pitches have changed, since I came out, is that as a trans person I'm expected to show you photos of my face and tell you my life story and how I *feel.* Even being perceived as a cis woman, I was allowed to tell you what I *think,* and you didn't need to see me.
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“Hmm that dude is a wreck you know where a lot of that trauma could go actually”
November 24, 2025 at 8:21 PM
“Hmm that dude is a wreck you know where a lot of that trauma could go actually”
This is one of the rare instances in which I rushed to Google "wife or daughter" and was gratified by the result
Happily, Rosa and I already had a message ready for the moment when Donald Trump’s baseless lawsuits against @tishjames.bsky.social and James Comey were dismissed:
November 24, 2025 at 8:23 PM
This is one of the rare instances in which I rushed to Google "wife or daughter" and was gratified by the result
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when i worked at a daycare in 2012 the parents were paying like $300 a week! i was making roughly $300 a week so i was like “maybe i should just be nanny and only have to take care of one child???” childcare stuff is basically where the parents and the workers are all unhappy, we should fix that!
"childcare can't possibly cost 32k" for two kids? Yeah it does. 1300 a month per kid is probably a better deal than you're going to be able to find. If you weren't aware of that, then it seems like the writer of the blog isn't the one divorced from reality
November 24, 2025 at 5:13 PM
when i worked at a daycare in 2012 the parents were paying like $300 a week! i was making roughly $300 a week so i was like “maybe i should just be nanny and only have to take care of one child???” childcare stuff is basically where the parents and the workers are all unhappy, we should fix that!
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I yelled “ohmygod” so loud after opening the mail, my husband had to come investigate. The new @mcsweeneys.net quarterly is unbelievable. Their design team is *chef’s kiss*
November 24, 2025 at 4:51 PM
I yelled “ohmygod” so loud after opening the mail, my husband had to come investigate. The new @mcsweeneys.net quarterly is unbelievable. Their design team is *chef’s kiss*
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“It's both possible, and even necessary, to simultaneously enjoy media while also being critical of its more problematic or pernicious aspects" was such a simple message that was so thoroughly and viciously rejected, but i think many of you still need to learn it
November 22, 2025 at 9:42 PM
“It's both possible, and even necessary, to simultaneously enjoy media while also being critical of its more problematic or pernicious aspects" was such a simple message that was so thoroughly and viciously rejected, but i think many of you still need to learn it
"Death by Lightning" is a lot of fun and also bizarrely Twitter-brained in some of its dialogue choices. Just Civil-War-era dudes in mutton chops and bushy beards yelling "our politics are not the same! I am aligned with [other politician!]"
November 24, 2025 at 3:32 AM
"Death by Lightning" is a lot of fun and also bizarrely Twitter-brained in some of its dialogue choices. Just Civil-War-era dudes in mutton chops and bushy beards yelling "our politics are not the same! I am aligned with [other politician!]"
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There is a post circulating on Bluesky encouraging the moving of a frozen turkey straight into a pot of hot oil. We are combating this misinformation the best way we know how - through the power of dance music.
November 23, 2025 at 1:31 PM
There is a post circulating on Bluesky encouraging the moving of a frozen turkey straight into a pot of hot oil. We are combating this misinformation the best way we know how - through the power of dance music.
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Scarleteen is one of the absolute best things that still remains of the internet I grew up on
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November 23, 2025 at 4:09 PM
Scarleteen is one of the absolute best things that still remains of the internet I grew up on
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he's trying to single white woman him!
November 23, 2025 at 4:54 PM
he's trying to single white woman him!
Lizza (who's got multiple allegations of sexual misconduct and harassment) is most likely posting all the gross RFK stuff now because Nuzzi had a restraining order against him until very recently. There is nothing about this story that is not depressing and I would like to unsubscribe.
November 22, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Lizza (who's got multiple allegations of sexual misconduct and harassment) is most likely posting all the gross RFK stuff now because Nuzzi had a restraining order against him until very recently. There is nothing about this story that is not depressing and I would like to unsubscribe.
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It would also give *Ryan Lizza*—who could, in theory, have leaked this info at any point over the last 12-16 months—a role in both RFK’s appointment and the untold preventable deaths. But Lizza either isn’t self aware enough to realize that or is too busy selling Substack subscriptions to care
well, I read it, and the salient, non-gross part is Lizza alleging, midsentence and without elaboration, that Nuzzi ran numerous “catch-and-kill operations” on RFK’s behalf, which would give her a role in both his appointment and the untold preventable deaths he has abetted in office. Cool.
November 22, 2025 at 4:04 PM
It would also give *Ryan Lizza*—who could, in theory, have leaked this info at any point over the last 12-16 months—a role in both RFK’s appointment and the untold preventable deaths. But Lizza either isn’t self aware enough to realize that or is too busy selling Substack subscriptions to care
🎼 Ich habe mein Leben in Stücke gerissen
Das ist mein letzter Ausweg 🎶
Das ist mein letzter Ausweg 🎶
November 21, 2025 at 10:05 PM
🎼 Ich habe mein Leben in Stücke gerissen
Das ist mein letzter Ausweg 🎶
Das ist mein letzter Ausweg 🎶
Also: I think most bullies have an instinct for when the person they want to pick on is too popular for them to go at without getting blowback, and they know how to miraculously become charming when that fits their preferred narrative. If you've never seen this, it's confusing! Do not be fooled!
Honestly, when I heard about this meeting, I thought Trump was going to have him killed, and this hasn't exactly dialed down my suspicions
Trump frickin' loves this guy lmao
November 21, 2025 at 9:37 PM
Also: I think most bullies have an instinct for when the person they want to pick on is too popular for them to go at without getting blowback, and they know how to miraculously become charming when that fits their preferred narrative. If you've never seen this, it's confusing! Do not be fooled!
Honestly, when I heard about this meeting, I thought Trump was going to have him killed, and this hasn't exactly dialed down my suspicions
November 21, 2025 at 9:33 PM
Honestly, when I heard about this meeting, I thought Trump was going to have him killed, and this hasn't exactly dialed down my suspicions
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my jaw is on the floor and yet im completely unsurprised. trump’s only political conviction is that he loves a handsome winner
A reporter asks if Mamdani stands by calling Trump a fascist. Mamdani starts to give a delicate answer.
Trump (smiles, pats Mamdani's arm): "That's OK, you can just say yes. It's easier. I don't mind."
Trump (smiles, pats Mamdani's arm): "That's OK, you can just say yes. It's easier. I don't mind."
November 21, 2025 at 8:58 PM
my jaw is on the floor and yet im completely unsurprised. trump’s only political conviction is that he loves a handsome winner
One thing "Eddington" got right is that "child sexual abuse" is a very easy thing to base a conspiracy theory on, because most of us know people who were abused as children, or were those kids. So it's easy to conclude there's some hidden structure, but the actual "conspiracy" is just rape culture.
November 21, 2025 at 8:44 PM
One thing "Eddington" got right is that "child sexual abuse" is a very easy thing to base a conspiracy theory on, because most of us know people who were abused as children, or were those kids. So it's easy to conclude there's some hidden structure, but the actual "conspiracy" is just rape culture.
This very nice review of DILF contains an extremely tactful yet accurate depiction of My Process mibookreviews.wordpress.com/2025/11/20/d...
November 21, 2025 at 7:35 PM
This very nice review of DILF contains an extremely tactful yet accurate depiction of My Process mibookreviews.wordpress.com/2025/11/20/d...
I keep wanting to do that "fictional character I remind you of" meme but I know in my heart it's just going to be a half-dozen pictures of ALF
November 21, 2025 at 7:27 PM
I keep wanting to do that "fictional character I remind you of" meme but I know in my heart it's just going to be a half-dozen pictures of ALF
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I feel like the last couple decades of "is representation good or not?" discourse missed more important questions of "how fragile is representation?", "what do we do when multiple industries eliminate it as an intentional move against us?" and "how can we sustain queer artists when shit goes south?"
"According to the report, [...]during the 2024-25 television season, queer characters increased across platforms by 4%, bringing the total to 489. However, the Thursday report found that 41% of those characters will not return." www.thewrap.com/glaad-where-...
Nearly Half of All LGBTQ+ Characters Will Disappear From TV Next Season, GLAAD Study Finds
The 2024-25 TV season recorded 489 queer characters across broadcast, cable and screenings, but cancellations and plot find a deep decline to come
www.thewrap.com
November 21, 2025 at 7:13 AM
I feel like the last couple decades of "is representation good or not?" discourse missed more important questions of "how fragile is representation?", "what do we do when multiple industries eliminate it as an intentional move against us?" and "how can we sustain queer artists when shit goes south?"
Just one of the many benefits of finishing this book!
November 21, 2025 at 12:38 AM
Just one of the many benefits of finishing this book!