Blue Dabadee (they/them)
@weirdlittleguy.bsky.social
I'm Nobody, who are you?
Gen X, queer, enby, disabled
Feral Goblin Anxiety Muppet
Gen X, queer, enby, disabled
Feral Goblin Anxiety Muppet
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Hello to all my friends who have found their way to bluesky! How about we have a little thread to introduce ourselves and what we’re about ✨💙✨
I’m Blue! They/them. I’m here to foster community and infodump about pop culture. I’m disabled and mentally ill and too earnest for my own goddamn good.
I’m Blue! They/them. I’m here to foster community and infodump about pop culture. I’m disabled and mentally ill and too earnest for my own goddamn good.
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It has always been so obvious that the backlash to MeToo isn’t about whether the abuse is happening but whether people are allowed to want it to stop
November 17, 2025 at 9:27 PM
It has always been so obvious that the backlash to MeToo isn’t about whether the abuse is happening but whether people are allowed to want it to stop
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The drink is called Stop Yelling At Us
Beginning Monday, a Frozen Peppermint Hot Chocolate drink will be available exclusively at Starbucks cafés inside Target stores.
The chains are hoping the drink can drum up excitement from customers this holiday season.
🔗https://tinyurl.com/yrshv45s
The chains are hoping the drink can drum up excitement from customers this holiday season.
🔗https://tinyurl.com/yrshv45s
November 17, 2025 at 8:56 PM
The drink is called Stop Yelling At Us
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del Toro: well, we could put a sexy igor in it
Shelley: we're not doing any fucking igor shit
Shelley: he's not in the fucking book
del Toro: ah but neither is this fucked up angel
Shelley: are you putting in a fucked up angel
del Toro: i love a fucked up angel
Shelley: yeah i'll allow this
Shelley: we're not doing any fucking igor shit
Shelley: he's not in the fucking book
del Toro: ah but neither is this fucked up angel
Shelley: are you putting in a fucked up angel
del Toro: i love a fucked up angel
Shelley: yeah i'll allow this
November 17, 2025 at 9:21 PM
del Toro: well, we could put a sexy igor in it
Shelley: we're not doing any fucking igor shit
Shelley: he's not in the fucking book
del Toro: ah but neither is this fucked up angel
Shelley: are you putting in a fucked up angel
del Toro: i love a fucked up angel
Shelley: yeah i'll allow this
Shelley: we're not doing any fucking igor shit
Shelley: he's not in the fucking book
del Toro: ah but neither is this fucked up angel
Shelley: are you putting in a fucked up angel
del Toro: i love a fucked up angel
Shelley: yeah i'll allow this
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It’s upsetting how often I meet people who have no problem agreeing trans women are women, but stop short of being willing or able to truly acknowledge trans women are human. Like, wanting them to exist in a way that never allows them to be anywhere the cis person thinks of as being “above me”.
November 17, 2025 at 7:40 PM
It’s upsetting how often I meet people who have no problem agreeing trans women are women, but stop short of being willing or able to truly acknowledge trans women are human. Like, wanting them to exist in a way that never allows them to be anywhere the cis person thinks of as being “above me”.
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And cis women who have a lot of permissive power? They can be every bit as violent as a man.
The issue is with allowing violence from people who have been granted society's favor.
We should simply not do that.
The issue is with allowing violence from people who have been granted society's favor.
We should simply not do that.
November 17, 2025 at 3:55 PM
And cis women who have a lot of permissive power? They can be every bit as violent as a man.
The issue is with allowing violence from people who have been granted society's favor.
We should simply not do that.
The issue is with allowing violence from people who have been granted society's favor.
We should simply not do that.
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There's a character in Star Trek named Bones but there's not a character in Bones named Star Trek, much to consider
November 17, 2025 at 2:21 PM
There's a character in Star Trek named Bones but there's not a character in Bones named Star Trek, much to consider
Hallelujah and amen
bread with butter is TRULY that girl
November 17, 2025 at 1:39 AM
Hallelujah and amen
AaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaa
November 15, 2025 at 5:27 PM
AaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaa
It’s bad in here, man *taps skull*
November 15, 2025 at 5:25 PM
It’s bad in here, man *taps skull*
MY BOYS
Frank Sinatra and Gene Kelly in On the Town (1949)
November 15, 2025 at 2:52 PM
MY BOYS
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You were incredible, Alice Wong, and it was a blessing to have collaborated with you on projects, to have read your words and to have heard your voice, as full of life and passion and joy and rage as it was.
You made a difference—so much of a difference.
Rest always in peace, and always in power.
You made a difference—so much of a difference.
Rest always in peace, and always in power.
November 15, 2025 at 7:34 AM
You were incredible, Alice Wong, and it was a blessing to have collaborated with you on projects, to have read your words and to have heard your voice, as full of life and passion and joy and rage as it was.
You made a difference—so much of a difference.
Rest always in peace, and always in power.
You made a difference—so much of a difference.
Rest always in peace, and always in power.
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If beloved clown Bill Irwin shows up in something you better believe I will say “Beloved clown Bill Irwin?” out loud
November 14, 2025 at 10:47 PM
If beloved clown Bill Irwin shows up in something you better believe I will say “Beloved clown Bill Irwin?” out loud
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i dont care if trump sucked cock cuz even if he did he spiritually did not
November 14, 2025 at 9:32 PM
i dont care if trump sucked cock cuz even if he did he spiritually did not
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Neuralgia would be such a beautiful name for a baby girl
November 14, 2025 at 8:17 PM
Neuralgia would be such a beautiful name for a baby girl
You can just not share that garbage. It’s not that funny anyway.
ope I think the joke between the epsteins about trump blowing bubba has hit the perimeter of resist lib homophobia, batten down the hatches
November 14, 2025 at 7:25 PM
You can just not share that garbage. It’s not that funny anyway.
“Is Maine the culinary capital of New England”
A whole state cannot be a capital. That’s not how that works.
A whole state cannot be a capital. That’s not how that works.
November 14, 2025 at 7:07 PM
“Is Maine the culinary capital of New England”
A whole state cannot be a capital. That’s not how that works.
A whole state cannot be a capital. That’s not how that works.
“OTHER PEOPLE EXIST” I scream-sing through the store
I am just filled with rage at the inconsiderate nature of others every time I go out in public.
November 14, 2025 at 6:00 PM
“OTHER PEOPLE EXIST” I scream-sing through the store
I am just filled with rage at the inconsiderate nature of others every time I go out in public.
November 14, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I am just filled with rage at the inconsiderate nature of others every time I go out in public.
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"What if one of YOUR favorite politicians/celebrities/etc is on the list?" Did you all not notice how quickly we dropped Neil Gaiman when we found out about the things he did? Do you know how beloved that guy used to be and how loathed he is now? I think that right there should answer your question.
November 13, 2025 at 5:58 AM
"What if one of YOUR favorite politicians/celebrities/etc is on the list?" Did you all not notice how quickly we dropped Neil Gaiman when we found out about the things he did? Do you know how beloved that guy used to be and how loathed he is now? I think that right there should answer your question.
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Has anyone who has been online for the last 10 years somehow not internalized that when it comes to matters like consent and exploitation, there is no one too beloved to be held accountable? Their fame is not a shield, but a measure of how deep the horror and disappointment will be when they fall.
"What if one of YOUR favorite politicians/celebrities/etc is on the list?" Did you all not notice how quickly we dropped Neil Gaiman when we found out about the things he did? Do you know how beloved that guy used to be and how loathed he is now? I think that right there should answer your question.
November 14, 2025 at 2:45 PM
Has anyone who has been online for the last 10 years somehow not internalized that when it comes to matters like consent and exploitation, there is no one too beloved to be held accountable? Their fame is not a shield, but a measure of how deep the horror and disappointment will be when they fall.
For me it’s gotta be Ragtime or Into the Woods
Both intricate, gorgeous, and full of big-hearted ideas
Both intricate, gorgeous, and full of big-hearted ideas
what is the best musical of all time and please explain yourself so i know whether or not to be angry at you
November 14, 2025 at 5:18 PM
For me it’s gotta be Ragtime or Into the Woods
Both intricate, gorgeous, and full of big-hearted ideas
Both intricate, gorgeous, and full of big-hearted ideas
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Higher education and medical care should be scot free for everyone, and UBI should make it possible for people to go back to school at any age or stage of their career if they want, to learn whatever they like.
November 14, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Higher education and medical care should be scot free for everyone, and UBI should make it possible for people to go back to school at any age or stage of their career if they want, to learn whatever they like.
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Also a one to two month lag on enacting consequences is confusing and counterproductive. If you are still figuring out how to implement, okay, but engage your user base on that learning edge and don't act like this is all perfectly reasonable and fine.
Good comms and some humility would go SO far
Good comms and some humility would go SO far
"People are mad that BlueSky won't allow them to make death threats."
No! People are mad that BlueSky's AI automod regularly gets it wrong, moderation decisions/ penalties are seemingly arbitrary, and the moderation team has terrible comms.
No! People are mad that BlueSky's AI automod regularly gets it wrong, moderation decisions/ penalties are seemingly arbitrary, and the moderation team has terrible comms.
November 14, 2025 at 4:45 PM
Also a one to two month lag on enacting consequences is confusing and counterproductive. If you are still figuring out how to implement, okay, but engage your user base on that learning edge and don't act like this is all perfectly reasonable and fine.
Good comms and some humility would go SO far
Good comms and some humility would go SO far
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Working class men don’t go to teenage girl sex abuse island because they’re not invited, not because they don’t want to.
November 14, 2025 at 2:17 PM
Working class men don’t go to teenage girl sex abuse island because they’re not invited, not because they don’t want to.
Trauma has cooked all of us. Be gentle and patient.
November 14, 2025 at 2:10 PM
Trauma has cooked all of us. Be gentle and patient.