Flan
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call me Flan | early 30s | enby shemale fagdyke thing | it/she/they | NSFW, 18+, minors DNI
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donald trump can publicly say he wants all trans people to be raped to death in prison but the things i want to say about him are illegal
BREAKING: Trump administration plans to end prison rape protections for trans & intersex people, memo says. A DOJ memo says certain standards under the Prison Rape Elimination Act (PREA) do not align with Trump’s Jan. 20 anti-trans executive order, @byadamrhodes.bsky.social reports.
Trump administration plans to end prison rape protections for trans and intersex people
A Department of Justice memo says certain standards under the Prison Rape Elimination Act do not align with Trump’s executive order
prismreports.org
December 5, 2025 at 1:25 AM
donald trump can publicly say he wants all trans people to be raped to death in prison but the things i want to say about him are illegal
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Some people, when confronted with a problem, think “I know, I’ll use floating point.” Now they have 2.10000000000000008882 problems.
December 4, 2025 at 11:54 AM
Some people, when confronted with a problem, think “I know, I’ll use floating point.” Now they have 2.10000000000000008882 problems.
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Damn that's crazy. Hey on a completely unrelated note
December 4, 2025 at 9:13 AM
Damn that's crazy. Hey on a completely unrelated note
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As a group, leftists had better get on board real fast about getting cool with being embodied and having a sexuality because all your rights will go out the window if we let them get rid of pornography because some of us are squeamish about sex.
December 2, 2025 at 10:28 PM
As a group, leftists had better get on board real fast about getting cool with being embodied and having a sexuality because all your rights will go out the window if we let them get rid of pornography because some of us are squeamish about sex.
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Sex workers, kinksters, and horny people of all stripes, overwhelmingly overlapping with various marginalized groups, have been at the forefront of every socially progressive change. You hate us, you despise us, you want to sweep us away and make us invisible... you cannot live without us.
As a group, leftists had better get on board real fast about getting cool with being embodied and having a sexuality because all your rights will go out the window if we let them get rid of pornography because some of us are squeamish about sex.
December 2, 2025 at 10:33 PM
Sex workers, kinksters, and horny people of all stripes, overwhelmingly overlapping with various marginalized groups, have been at the forefront of every socially progressive change. You hate us, you despise us, you want to sweep us away and make us invisible... you cannot live without us.
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As a pornographer myself, I feel... weird about creators who make distinctions between porn and other adult/sexual content. If you defend porn, your work will ALSO be defended. Don't be afraid to get down in the mud with us. You're gonna end up here anyway.
there is plenty of sexual content on steam. the problem isn't that valve is denying sexual content (though, as a near-monopoly, that would also be a problem) it's that valve is denying specifically sexual content that is non-pornographic, most notably in the horror genre.
It's pretty clear everyone would rather strawman me than have an actual conversation.
The content in Horses is sexual and well within Valve's right to say it violates their sexual content policies.
Horses has every right to exist. Valve has every right not to distribute it.
The content in Horses is sexual and well within Valve's right to say it violates their sexual content policies.
Horses has every right to exist. Valve has every right not to distribute it.
December 3, 2025 at 7:55 PM
As a pornographer myself, I feel... weird about creators who make distinctions between porn and other adult/sexual content. If you defend porn, your work will ALSO be defended. Don't be afraid to get down in the mud with us. You're gonna end up here anyway.
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Fucking this. Sorry not sorry, but the idea that I wasn't 'really' trans unless I went whole hog right out the gate kept me miserable in the closet for years, and I'm not the only one. Transition is HUGE, and you have to let people take small steps and not cold-shock them with a years' long process
They are focusing too much on hormones and ignoring other material conditions.
Most people do not start with hormones, they start with crossdressing. Some people experiment with being non-binary before taking the plunge. And some people just *are* that
There is no universal trans experience
Most people do not start with hormones, they start with crossdressing. Some people experiment with being non-binary before taking the plunge. And some people just *are* that
There is no universal trans experience
December 3, 2025 at 7:54 PM
Fucking this. Sorry not sorry, but the idea that I wasn't 'really' trans unless I went whole hog right out the gate kept me miserable in the closet for years, and I'm not the only one. Transition is HUGE, and you have to let people take small steps and not cold-shock them with a years' long process
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I don't want you here if you think ace people, aro people, nonbinary people, or bisexuals are "straight-passing" or have "privilege". They are in danger.
People don’t think conversion therapy exists if you’re asexual, but it does, and Noah Smith is going to be the prime case study for a lot of people
what
December 3, 2025 at 6:12 PM
I don't want you here if you think ace people, aro people, nonbinary people, or bisexuals are "straight-passing" or have "privilege". They are in danger.
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What doesn't get highlighted enough: bans on trans care almost never end just at healthcare specific to us. They're often a cover for just refusing to treat trans people period, for anything.
Broken bone? Surgery complications? Infection? Bigoted medical institutions are happy to let us die.
Broken bone? Surgery complications? Infection? Bigoted medical institutions are happy to let us die.
U.S. catholic bishops criticizing Trump's crackdowns obscured that at the same conference they tried to make sure way more trans people die due to a lack of life-saving medical care.
Catholic hospitals see 1 in 7 patients. In some areas they're the only medical system:
www.npr.org/2025/11/12/g...
Catholic hospitals see 1 in 7 patients. In some areas they're the only medical system:
www.npr.org/2025/11/12/g...
U.S. bishops officially ban gender-affirming care at Catholic hospitals
The bishops' decision formalizes a yearslong process for the U.S. church to address transgender health care. They also approved a special message on immigration, expressing concern over enforcement an...
www.npr.org
November 13, 2025 at 3:55 PM
What doesn't get highlighted enough: bans on trans care almost never end just at healthcare specific to us. They're often a cover for just refusing to treat trans people period, for anything.
Broken bone? Surgery complications? Infection? Bigoted medical institutions are happy to let us die.
Broken bone? Surgery complications? Infection? Bigoted medical institutions are happy to let us die.
oh, I also love how we're implicitly conflating "non-transitioning" and "gender non-conforming". as a transitioning GNC tranny this is something I am totally fine with, naturally /s
October 27, 2025 at 9:40 PM
oh, I also love how we're implicitly conflating "non-transitioning" and "gender non-conforming". as a transitioning GNC tranny this is something I am totally fine with, naturally /s
I see we're doing the "are GNC trannies holding The Community™ back?" thing yet again. this shit is why I barely go on here anymore.
October 27, 2025 at 9:36 PM
I see we're doing the "are GNC trannies holding The Community™ back?" thing yet again. this shit is why I barely go on here anymore.
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ive been on tumblr long enough to key in on the sort of people who like to pretend theyre merely having an anodyne discussion of queer taxonomy while at the same time tearing into their favorite tranny lolcow with the intensity of a pack of starving velociraptors just offscreen in the discord
October 27, 2025 at 6:14 PM
ive been on tumblr long enough to key in on the sort of people who like to pretend theyre merely having an anodyne discussion of queer taxonomy while at the same time tearing into their favorite tranny lolcow with the intensity of a pack of starving velociraptors just offscreen in the discord
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girl who has extreme unaddressed trauma: im so sleepy, im so eepypilled, i just want to eep, im a sleepy little princess
October 27, 2025 at 6:22 AM
girl who has extreme unaddressed trauma: im so sleepy, im so eepypilled, i just want to eep, im a sleepy little princess
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Just gonna say this but this 'growing rift' is just entirely manufactured.
This is just straight up TruTrans shit that you would see come out of Buck Angel or Blaire White’s mouth.
Look at my queer journalism, dog, we’re not gonna make it
Look at my queer journalism, dog, we’re not gonna make it
October 27, 2025 at 4:51 PM
Just gonna say this but this 'growing rift' is just entirely manufactured.
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Remember, as SNAP is about to end, the standing rule remains firm:
If you see someone stealing diapers or formula no you didn't.
If you see someone stealing diapers or formula no you didn't.
October 23, 2025 at 8:44 PM
Remember, as SNAP is about to end, the standing rule remains firm:
If you see someone stealing diapers or formula no you didn't.
If you see someone stealing diapers or formula no you didn't.
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Hey,
I’m after a week of doing my darnest to stay afloat. Trying as hard as I can to keep it together and hang on to every little bit of joy or comfort I manage to find, and I’m not sure how long I can keep it up like this.
Hey,
I’m after a week of doing my darnest to stay afloat. Trying as hard as I can to keep it together and hang on to every little bit of joy or comfort I manage to find, and I’m not sure how long I can keep it up like this.
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I'm really not doing well. I'm somewhere that's not good for my mental health. I'm doing what I can to change my circumstances, but there's only so much I can do.
Please help.
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Please help.
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October 24, 2025 at 5:11 PM
bsky.app/profile/emaj...
Hey,
I’m after a week of doing my darnest to stay afloat. Trying as hard as I can to keep it together and hang on to every little bit of joy or comfort I manage to find, and I’m not sure how long I can keep it up like this.
Hey,
I’m after a week of doing my darnest to stay afloat. Trying as hard as I can to keep it together and hang on to every little bit of joy or comfort I manage to find, and I’m not sure how long I can keep it up like this.
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I would only also add a significant part of the pseudoscience was directly created to absolve white men of sex crimes
"It's not his fault, he has an addiction!"
Said by the same people who think you can beat heterosexuality and good manners into children
I would only also add a significant part of the pseudoscience was directly created to absolve white men of sex crimes
"It's not his fault, he has an addiction!"
Said by the same people who think you can beat heterosexuality and good manners into children
This will be the hill I die on, “porn addiction” is not real, that phrase specifically is used as a dog whistle and is backed only by pseudoscience which has been created by right wing fascist organisations with the intention to demonise minorities. It is not real, actual science proves it isn’t.
October 12, 2025 at 10:23 PM
Nothing is wrong in this post
I would only also add a significant part of the pseudoscience was directly created to absolve white men of sex crimes
"It's not his fault, he has an addiction!"
Said by the same people who think you can beat heterosexuality and good manners into children
I would only also add a significant part of the pseudoscience was directly created to absolve white men of sex crimes
"It's not his fault, he has an addiction!"
Said by the same people who think you can beat heterosexuality and good manners into children
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Make no mistake: this is part of eugenicist policy under fascism.
The Education Department laid off nearly everyone at the Office of Special Education and Rehabilitative Services.
Education Department wipes out special ed office in shutdown layoffs, union says
The Education Department laid off nearly everyone at the Office of Special Education and Rehabilitative Services.
bit.ly
October 11, 2025 at 9:41 PM
Make no mistake: this is part of eugenicist policy under fascism.
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The COO of bluesky, Rose, is following the heritage foundation account on bluesky.
She is the COO en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chief_o... of bsky. This is worrying because after the 'we are turning waffles into an anti-trans thing' by the CEO the CEO started to follow a transphobe. Shows a pattern.
Wonder when we find out one of them follows the discovery institute.
Wonder when we find out one of them follows the discovery institute.
October 8, 2025 at 2:27 PM
The COO of bluesky, Rose, is following the heritage foundation account on bluesky.
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I genuinely am shocked to think that there may be autistic people out in the world who *don't* have CPTSD because existing in our current society as autistic is so fundamentally traumatic
No shit we all have CPTSD. We've been violently depersonalized our whole lives, completely disconnected from who and what we are until we finally figure it out, and when we do and talk about it there's a chance some redditors will appear out of thin air to tell us we're delusional.
October 6, 2025 at 1:37 PM
I genuinely am shocked to think that there may be autistic people out in the world who *don't* have CPTSD because existing in our current society as autistic is so fundamentally traumatic
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I hate the term “bullying”. It suggests that it’s somehow less serious than what it actually is: abuse and violence.
But oh no, can’t say that a child is a violent abuser. Because children are always innocent little angels, right?
But oh no, can’t say that a child is a violent abuser. Because children are always innocent little angels, right?
October 5, 2025 at 6:26 AM
I hate the term “bullying”. It suggests that it’s somehow less serious than what it actually is: abuse and violence.
But oh no, can’t say that a child is a violent abuser. Because children are always innocent little angels, right?
But oh no, can’t say that a child is a violent abuser. Because children are always innocent little angels, right?
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I feel like most people haven’t quite processed how the combination of “the DOJ won’t arrest federal agents violating your rights” and “the president can pardon anyone” in combination with “anyone who tries to sue the feds will is endangered” has rendered the bill of rights functionally void
October 8, 2025 at 5:40 AM
I feel like most people haven’t quite processed how the combination of “the DOJ won’t arrest federal agents violating your rights” and “the president can pardon anyone” in combination with “anyone who tries to sue the feds will is endangered” has rendered the bill of rights functionally void