Rue
@ruevian.bsky.social
she/her ◈ 42 ◈ queer
◈ fandom lurker, goth weeb, lazy artist, life time horror fan, romantic at heart ◈
◈ dungeons some dragons, full time dumbass, god's favorite mistake ◈
◈ fandom lurker, goth weeb, lazy artist, life time horror fan, romantic at heart ◈
◈ dungeons some dragons, full time dumbass, god's favorite mistake ◈
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Rue
@ruevian.bsky.social
· Jun 15
I should have been a pair of ragged claws
Scuttling across the floors of silent seas.
Scuttling across the floors of silent seas.
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Taking bets on whether men decide to solve this problem by becoming decent partners or by abolishing women’s rights.
The sharp decline in US teenagers’ aspiration to get married and have kids…
…is happening almost entirely among girls, not boys.
At some point maybe men will start trying harder to understand that.
www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/... | HT @conradhackett.bsky.social @pewresearch.org
…is happening almost entirely among girls, not boys.
At some point maybe men will start trying harder to understand that.
www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/... | HT @conradhackett.bsky.social @pewresearch.org
November 24, 2025 at 6:31 AM
Taking bets on whether men decide to solve this problem by becoming decent partners or by abolishing women’s rights.
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Get in the robot, Charlie Brown.
November 24, 2025 at 3:52 AM
Get in the robot, Charlie Brown.
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this is a metaphor for waking up and logging on
the baby (17 months) raised both her hands and said “WEADY?” so I said “ready!” and then she slapped me in the face
November 22, 2025 at 6:27 PM
this is a metaphor for waking up and logging on
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There is a post circulating on Bluesky encouraging the moving of a frozen turkey straight into a pot of hot oil. We are combating this misinformation the best way we know how - through the power of dance music.
November 23, 2025 at 1:31 PM
There is a post circulating on Bluesky encouraging the moving of a frozen turkey straight into a pot of hot oil. We are combating this misinformation the best way we know how - through the power of dance music.
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Ah, I'm awake again. Time to open the psychological harm app
November 22, 2025 at 2:09 PM
Ah, I'm awake again. Time to open the psychological harm app
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Super cool that the movie ended when they met again 🙂
[ #frankenstein ]
[ #frankenstein ]
November 21, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Super cool that the movie ended when they met again 🙂
[ #frankenstein ]
[ #frankenstein ]
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It's truly remarkable how thoroughly pathetic the richest man in the world is
Elon appears to have trained Grok to say he would win at everything
November 21, 2025 at 5:00 AM
It's truly remarkable how thoroughly pathetic the richest man in the world is
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"everyone believes something is true because the text generator they use 24/7 says it's true" is a sci-fi horror premise
November 20, 2025 at 3:00 PM
"everyone believes something is true because the text generator they use 24/7 says it's true" is a sci-fi horror premise
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Well put by @drrachelbarr.bsky.social
November 19, 2025 at 11:02 PM
Well put by @drrachelbarr.bsky.social
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There are coincidences, and there are trends, and then there's this. This is erasure.
"According to the report, [...]during the 2024-25 television season, queer characters increased across platforms by 4%, bringing the total to 489. However, the Thursday report found that 41% of those characters will not return." www.thewrap.com/glaad-where-...
Nearly Half of All LGBTQ+ Characters Will Disappear From TV Next Season, GLAAD Study Finds
The 2024-25 TV season recorded 489 queer characters across broadcast, cable and screenings, but cancellations and plot find a deep decline to come
www.thewrap.com
November 20, 2025 at 2:21 AM
There are coincidences, and there are trends, and then there's this. This is erasure.
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Today is the day to repost this meme about International Men's Day, one of the most unironically wholesome memes that has ever been made.
Shoutout to all my fellow champs, chiefs, and kings. ✊
Shoutout to all my fellow champs, chiefs, and kings. ✊
November 19, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Today is the day to repost this meme about International Men's Day, one of the most unironically wholesome memes that has ever been made.
Shoutout to all my fellow champs, chiefs, and kings. ✊
Shoutout to all my fellow champs, chiefs, and kings. ✊
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Remember: don't eat the mid tier fast food chicken, don't play the wizard game, don't shop at the hobby store run by the bad guys from Indiana Jones, and don't donate to the bigot bucket.
I know it's a tad early but I know those bitches with the buckets will be out soon. Don't gove them a penny. The volunteers may not know but the salvation army is no ally and actively combative and harmful to many queer minorities especially during the holiday season
November 17, 2025 at 11:41 PM
Remember: don't eat the mid tier fast food chicken, don't play the wizard game, don't shop at the hobby store run by the bad guys from Indiana Jones, and don't donate to the bigot bucket.
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the family jewel
harriet / toreador
harriet / toreador
November 18, 2025 at 1:25 AM
the family jewel
harriet / toreador
harriet / toreador
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Crocodile Dance is a 2D/3D Animated Thriller about a Nigerian musician who must confront the curse of a Mami Wata to save her family.
Support us on @Kickstarter today! bit.ly/croc-dance-ks
Support us on @Kickstarter today! bit.ly/croc-dance-ks
November 14, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Crocodile Dance is a 2D/3D Animated Thriller about a Nigerian musician who must confront the curse of a Mami Wata to save her family.
Support us on @Kickstarter today! bit.ly/croc-dance-ks
Support us on @Kickstarter today! bit.ly/croc-dance-ks
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Got my package of King's Crew Hot Salts (@hotsalts.blacksky.app) yesterday. Finally got a chance to try all three of them today.
#BlackOwnedBusiness #KingsCrew #HotSalts
#BlackOwnedBusiness #KingsCrew #HotSalts
November 15, 2025 at 6:49 PM
Got my package of King's Crew Hot Salts (@hotsalts.blacksky.app) yesterday. Finally got a chance to try all three of them today.
#BlackOwnedBusiness #KingsCrew #HotSalts
#BlackOwnedBusiness #KingsCrew #HotSalts
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It's a great cosmic joke that neurodivergence both runs in families and gets diagnosed based on parent reports. I was diagnosed at 30 because a man who has eaten potatoes every day for 57 years and a woman who collects loose buttons decided I was a perfectly normal child.
November 15, 2025 at 5:10 AM
It's a great cosmic joke that neurodivergence both runs in families and gets diagnosed based on parent reports. I was diagnosed at 30 because a man who has eaten potatoes every day for 57 years and a woman who collects loose buttons decided I was a perfectly normal child.
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your dead AI mother loves you so much ❤️
November 15, 2025 at 12:50 AM
your dead AI mother loves you so much ❤️
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Stephen King: “I wrote Pet Sematary as a cautionary tale of what happens when a grief and despair overpower the order of a natural world”
Tech Bros: “At long last, we have recreated the pet sematary from the novel Pet Sematary”
Tech Bros: “At long last, we have recreated the pet sematary from the novel Pet Sematary”
November 14, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Stephen King: “I wrote Pet Sematary as a cautionary tale of what happens when a grief and despair overpower the order of a natural world”
Tech Bros: “At long last, we have recreated the pet sematary from the novel Pet Sematary”
Tech Bros: “At long last, we have recreated the pet sematary from the novel Pet Sematary”
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When you stop paying the subscription fee they don't cancel it but they put your dead loved one in hell and you get unskippable video of them burning and begging for you to save them every single hour of the day.
November 14, 2025 at 4:37 PM
When you stop paying the subscription fee they don't cancel it but they put your dead loved one in hell and you get unskippable video of them burning and begging for you to save them every single hour of the day.
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The "freeze" trauma response is a nervous system-deep manifestation of what psychologists call "learned helplessness"-- the reflexive paralysis we experience when we perceive every option available to be associated w/ pain or unacceptable risk.
Trauma responses aren't "choices."
Trauma responses aren't "choices."
November 13, 2025 at 11:37 PM
The "freeze" trauma response is a nervous system-deep manifestation of what psychologists call "learned helplessness"-- the reflexive paralysis we experience when we perceive every option available to be associated w/ pain or unacceptable risk.
Trauma responses aren't "choices."
Trauma responses aren't "choices."
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working at the nyt
November 13, 2025 at 2:37 PM
working at the nyt
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cw: pet illness
Colby's been officially diagnosed with kidney disease. She's 19. It was expected. To make the rest of her life as comfy as I can she'll need a diet change, a few meds. And I'll need to take her for fluid treatments.
If you ever wanted to get a comm from me now would be so helpful.
Colby's been officially diagnosed with kidney disease. She's 19. It was expected. To make the rest of her life as comfy as I can she'll need a diet change, a few meds. And I'll need to take her for fluid treatments.
If you ever wanted to get a comm from me now would be so helpful.
November 13, 2025 at 7:29 PM
cw: pet illness
Colby's been officially diagnosed with kidney disease. She's 19. It was expected. To make the rest of her life as comfy as I can she'll need a diet change, a few meds. And I'll need to take her for fluid treatments.
If you ever wanted to get a comm from me now would be so helpful.
Colby's been officially diagnosed with kidney disease. She's 19. It was expected. To make the rest of her life as comfy as I can she'll need a diet change, a few meds. And I'll need to take her for fluid treatments.
If you ever wanted to get a comm from me now would be so helpful.
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Kind of crazy that evidence is mounting that the world is run by a group of rapists, pedophiles, and men convinced of women’s inmate natural inferiority, and the pundit class is trying to convince us that the real social crisis is that men are victimized and lonely because women have too many jobs.
You just know that “Did Women Ruin the Workplace?” bit would have done NUMBERS in this little clique
Something absolutely perfect about Larry Summers riffing about the scourge of woke cancel culture being unfair to predatory men in a friendly email to his pal JEFFREY EPSTEIN.
November 13, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Kind of crazy that evidence is mounting that the world is run by a group of rapists, pedophiles, and men convinced of women’s inmate natural inferiority, and the pundit class is trying to convince us that the real social crisis is that men are victimized and lonely because women have too many jobs.
so guess who finally watched frankenstein lol
November 13, 2025 at 5:38 PM
so guess who finally watched frankenstein lol